Monday, August 5, 2013

The Red Spot

Because I know there are or will be questions, and people are mostly too polite to ask, I feel the need to explain.

 My Beth is perfect.  She is beautiful and so sweet tempered and just a joy to be around.

But with all babies, there is always an element of worry which encases that little bundle of love.  When Beth was born, she had some red spotting on her face, and her eye was rather swollen.  Jeffrey and I chalked it up to the delivery.  When Faye was born she was purple from head to toe.  Not purple as in she wasn't breathing, but purple as in a nice lavender color that looked gorgeous with her pink nightgown.  The coloring stayed for three days, and then she turned slightly yellow (jaundice) and then to the normal chubby pink of any healthy baby.  When Keith was born, he was first grayish, then bright red (seriously, summer garden tomatoes were being rivaled with his coloring), then blue (he had a rocky birth, and stopped breathing a few times), then really yellow (his jaundice was more severe than Faye's), and then the normal pink of babies.

So, with Beth's redness, we figured it was probably something just from her birth.  

Later that day, the pediatrician came by and told us it was Hemangioma, which is a growth of too many of the blood vessels being too close to the skin's surface.  She told us that we would need to take Beth to an ophthalmologist, and a dermatologist.  The ophthalmologist because the pressure placed on the retina of the eye by the rogue blood vessels could cause permanent eye damage, possibly resulting in blindness.  There are laser treatments that could be done to fix it, but we needed to speak to those two specialists as soon as possible.

Hi, I just had a baby.  Give me something tragic to worry about, okay?  Good idea.

Honestly, though, I didn't worry about it as much as Jeffrey did.  In the back of my mind I decided to consult my brother, the doctor, before I really took what she said as the gospel truth.  

The next morning, a different pediatrician came in and looked at her.  He said he didn't agree with the first, and thought it was nothing more than a port wine stain.  One of those lovely red birthmarks that some people (Gorbachev) have.  Something she would most likely sport for the rest of her life.  But it had no residual effects. 

We felt a little better about that, but I still wanted to talk with my brother.  She had her two day appointment later that day, so we would get to have a tie breaker opinion as to what was on Beth's face.  

We took her to our family doctor, he looked her over, sat down and looked at us.

"So, you were told it is either Hemangioma, or a port wine stain.  There is a third option no one mentioned to you, which I think is the most likely." He paused.  Jeffrey and I were holding our breath, bracing ourselves for the bad news which would inevitably follow.  

"Babies sometimes are in a position in the womb where there is prolonged pressure applied somewhere on their body, resulting in a red swollen spot.  This spot usually goes away in a couple of months.  Now, it could be Hemangioma, but that wouldn't explain the swelling in her eye.  It could be port wine stain, but that wouldn't explain the swelling of her eye.  If she had her hand there for a long time, it would explain the swelling.  I don't think you have anything to worry about.  If it isn't gone by six months, we can look into other options, but I am fairly certain that it will fade and go away soon."

Exhale.

It turns out, after hearing our doctor's opinion, I no longer felt the need to call my brother, the doctor. Thinking about it, it all made sense.  Beth constantly has her hands up by her face.  We have to watch her, or her fingers will be in her eye.  Specifically the side that is all red and swollen.  

I love our doctor. 

And not just because he saved us a lot of heartache.

I need a non-alarmist kind of doctor because I am an alarmist kind of mom.

So, for now, Beth has a beautiful red/pink spot around her eye and on her cheek.

And I just discovered today, she also has the sweetest dimple on her cheek as well!  I have been trying to get a picture of it since I noticed it, but her smiles, though frequent, are fleeting right now.


9 comments:

*Jess* said...

she is perfect! And I am glad you guys have nothing to worry about :)

Randomlicious Memoirs said...

Congrats!! I just read the whole story how you didn't tell anyone you were pregnant!! That is so awesome!! I would have said no the whole way even if it was visable I mean go big or go home right? Lol. I'm glad to hear you didn't tell anyone because I was beginning to feel bad I didn't know about it just because I hadn't read your blog in so long. Isn't that funny? I'm invested in your life story.

I was going to wonder if that red spot was less serious as I read your post. My first son was born with something like that on his arm it was very bright and red. They called it a strawberry and said over time it would go away. He's 5 now and it's gotten lighter and lighter each year and now almost completely gone. He looks at it from time to time and get sad when he realizes its fading. We took plenty of pictures to remember it. I hope that it remains nothing serious for your little one!

Congrats and I am so excited for you!!!
She is so beautiful and gorgeous and what a precious little one to have!! 😃💜💙💛

Jenny said...

Okay, sweetie.

Breathe now.

She is beautiful.

My older daughter had a very large one of these...it faded in the first year.

My son had one on the back of his head and neck and it disappeared by the time he was one!

She is just absolutely beautiful!

Chantel said...

She is beautiful!!! Your brother, the doctor probably won't mind if you still call him for his opinion. My siblings call me all the time on different things and I never mind. I love the picture with Faye. So cute!

Emmy said...

I bet your doctor is right and yes hope that that is what it is as that is definitely best case scenario. You are right I did see it but didn't want to ask :)

Confessions of a PTO Mom said...

You were given the baby God knew you needed, and whom He knew needed you.
Enjoy.

Sue said...

Parenting is full of worries, isn't it? But that's part of the job, I guess.

She is beautiful, Amy.

=)

Lisa said...

She's still beautiful. :) Glad you have such a wonderful dr!

Em said...

stork bites;) max still has a big one on the back of her neck and brennan was born with them around his eyes. sweet sweet little darlings.